As for you, take some time to let this all sink in. Don't do anything today that you may regret for years. Let your emotions settle before you choose to really act on this.
Azzork I'm not sure what you mean when you say "choosing to really act on this"? Can you give a scenario
For example, filing for divorce, having a major argument with H, etc. etc.
My point is that I imagine your emotions re running high right now. Dont let them control how you react to this event.