JPEG - one thing to take caution for is to try not to "recruit" your kids against your H in this. You can validate their feelings of rejection, but I don't know that it does you any good to bad-mouth him to them. He is still their father and their relationship with him is not yours to fix.
This is something i was very conscience of since the beginning I havent been recruiting the kids against H if anything its been the other way around..This entire year that H has been gone I have been asking the kids to be patient with him etc Ihave been trying to set up times for them to get together for H to stay at house while i leave for weekend - after this happened last night I am backing off.
As for you, take some time to let this all sink in. Don't do anything today that you may regret for years. Let your emotions settle before you choose to really act on this.
Azzork I'm not sure what you mean when you say "choosing to really act on this"? Can you give a scenario
