I have failed my one job. I'm am hurting so much. I am doing everything from gal to keeping my distance but it's hurting more and more knowing he's going clubbing, bars, dating... fml... :'(
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
Overcome I feel your pain I am in the same position with my w going clubbing but know that you cannot control what he does just like I cannot control my W
All we can do is keep working on ourself and know that we have become the best we can
How do we make this better ....I guess time will make it better
Sending Internet hugs to you
Ghost
Last edited by Ghost56; 09/20/1508:18 AM.
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
I hate this feeling and I feel like I'm not getting any better at changing my self. I know my flaws and what needs to be done but I just feel like I can't change it. I'm sorry you have to go through this too. Why can't they just realize what their doing and cone back home. I envy the couples that reconcile. I pray day and night that it's in God's will that we will return to each other. The other hard part is braking the news to my family as no one knows what's really happing. I'm so scared to tell my dad and my brothers...
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
Overcom sometimes it is hard for you to notice the changes but they are happening you say you know your flaws look at changing just a small part of each flaws
Do things for you do something nice just for you
Your family will understand I know they will blood is thicker than water
Take care
Ghost
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
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