Thanks Sotto, I definately need guidance. I have read DR, and the LRT section many times. I agree that I keep screwing up. I didn't recognize some of those mistakes. My mind kinda shuts off when I talk to her sometimes. I guess I will reread DR again. It's not like I don't have the time.

The reason I told her to find what makes her happy, is that she cannot tell herself what that is.

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Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....