Agree w/ the others, let the score card go. That's only a recipe for friction that will affect everyone's quality of life.

Also, when there are children involved, my attitude is give a little more than you might to keep a healthy, peaceful co-parenting relationship and so that kids know you dealt fairly and generously w/ your S, despite their being the one who walked. It will pay dividends in the future.

Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15