In the UK these orders are called Mesher orders. You can try googling this for positives and negatives, it's well trod ground here in the UK and fairly standard stuff, many good articles on it. I know this may be different but the principles will generally apply.
Drop the scorecard U, not helping you. I absolutely know that you have better strategies than that, it may get in the way of achieving the best result for U and his children.
Clear head, breathe and take advice.
Breathe deeply
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
