Thanks Judy. I know that life goes on, no matter the outcome of my M. It is hard to not be overwhelmed, especially while I am sitting here alone. Boundaries... W isn't with anyone else. My main boundaries right now are: I can't be just friends, because I expect more and want more, so I over analyze everything. I cannot agree with her actions regarding all of our lives being better off after D, so I keep pushing even though I know better. I feel as if she is completely selfish now. I pray for the fog to lift!
Not really a boundary, I guess. But, emotionally I know that I need physical detachment as well for right now.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....