So i have a counseling meeting today at 4pm, it's a church's counseling for married people. I txt my wife last tuesday if she would love to join me , and just just replied with NO. I think is unfair that she wont join me since she once suggested to go to couples counseling when we were dating and i said yes. I am thinking of txt her reminding her that counseling is still going at 4pm and to please join me. My txt would go something like this{ Hello we are still on for counseling at 4pm on the 6th floor, if you feel like we can still get through this please come join me, if you feel like we are done and theres no way of fixing it than dont show up. Dont txt back i will know the answer when i get to the counselor.