JudyL,

Good morning. Hope your doing ok. I am going to start being aware of her direction on moving on without me. It is as every other week she finds or makes up something crazy that never happened.

I am struggling with either moving closer to where my kids live which is about an hour and half away, but that will put me farther away from work even more.

I saw my boys yesterday and they were upset that I had to leave after their game b/c it was their mothers weekend. It kills me that she can seem so unplugged at their hurt and cries. She is being told that is normal and I told her she is being brain washed. I know that I did and do my best and that she somehow figures life is supposed to be perfect. Well, she's done with me and moved into her mothers and her mother has essentially taken over my roll. It really pisses me off! Her mother is a man hater and is really deranged.I am not just saying this she fights and is needy and now my wife and her can commiserate together.

Anyway, I'm on my way up there again to see my kids play ball.

I really want to see the good in wife, but at this point I am disgusted with her. How could she ruin a family? God right now she makes me sick!!!