Well, it's 14 months since BD for me. I haven't seen H for over a year now and we last spoke a few months ago. For the past few months he has been working towards D and we have exchanged financial disclosures. I received draft D papers in mid August and 'accepted' the contents. However H has yet to actually file for D.
Last I heard OW was still on the scene somewhere. Though it has always been rather off and on with her former partner somewhere in the mix too - messy.
I am busy as usual, enjoying work and new friends and interest. At some point I'll need to push things from my end I think, just to get financials sorted but I'm viable for now. I've certainly reached the point I'm confident I'll be fine either way. Though I know I would still be glad if H showed interest in working on things.
It's been a sad few days as I had to put my lovely old cat to sleep. She was a great old girl and I miss her. But other than that, life is moving forward and I am finding joy in it.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
