So as I last posted. Wife asked me to stop texting. Which I have for the last 2 weeks almost. Only communication is basically thru lawyers. Or has been very business like text from her regarding bills. She has a car that was giving to me 2 years ago and has been driving it since we started dating. In her proposal she wanted the car, even though I had it coming into our 2 year marriage. I mean she took everything that she brought into the marriage with her. I let my attorney know that I would like my car back as it will be long time before I can afford to buy another car. She came back and agreed, but we have other debt we are not agreeing on. Last time I talked to her, she was angry about, a lot of things. Having to get a car was among other things. So last week I sent her an email saying that if she hasn't already put money down for a new car that to let me know if she wanted to keep the car. I mean, I love her and want to make things less stressful for her. Even though she makes more than twice what I make and would be easier for her to buy a car and help with our debt. So she has been out of contact, in the mountains for more than a week, since I sent the email. If I don't hear from her when she gets back. Should I send a text or call her to let her know my offer. Time is of the essence since she is probably car shopping if not already getting one. So would this break my going dark?