Seems only worse. H has not called or sent an email message or a Skype message even for just the kids. He also deactivated his FB account that he used to contact me.
Screw him. I'm so angry. He wants to flit off to South America and live his fantasy life ( which many a co-worker has done successfully and never come back) then that's just great-have at it. But he has children that shouldn't be abandoned.
I'm definitely concerned about the financial end of this. We rely mostly on his paychecks to live. He doesn't make much but I make little by comparison. And everything is in a joint account. Thing is, even though I have complete access and I'm the one paying the bills, his checks are direct deposit and at any time he can change what bank he want his money sent to.
No good lawyer recommendations from the few people I've talked to. Crap. I'm scared.
M 43 H 48 M 19y T 20y D 14 S 12 H returned home from out of country 8/8/15 BD 8/11/15 EA Began end of June/beginning of July 2015; ongoing PA H denies ILYBINILWY
