I get the anger, truly. These beings who have taken over our spouse's bodies are like impatient three year olds. Nothing you've ever done is remembered, certainly not appreciated. It IS a bitter pill to swallow.
Judy - that is such an excellent way to describe how my WAW ended up. So many times I would ask her "what happened to you? have you hit your head? your evil step-sister? possessed?? whats going on?" I wasted so much time after BD thinking that maybe she was sick or had a mental problem or would snap out of it. I was trying to be understanding and patient with her but all I ended up doing was digging myself further into the LBS syndrome and having her and me lose a lot of respect for myself.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
