I get the anger, truly. These beings who have taken over our spouse's bodies are like impatient three year olds. Nothing you've ever done is remembered, certainly not appreciated. It IS a bitter pill to swallow.
The best thing you can do for YOU, not him, is to forgive him. View him as an imbecile who knows not what he does, and let it go.It is, without question, the best gift you can ever give yourself. These are HIS issues. Don't let bitterness in your heart. The cost is too high.
I'm so glad you get my sense of humor! Some people don't. I can't help it. Terminal illness? If only the rest of us were so lucky! LOL
