It seems that you have drawn a line in the sand, point of no return.... "After this, I cannot and will not be married to WW. There is simply too much damage, too much disrespect, for far too long."
Welcome to the club. That happens. People in worse situations than you who have said worse things than you, and most likely said NEVER. Have gotten back together. I guess my point is that the outcome is not important. Focus on what drove her away, learn from it, and don't do that stuff anymore. That will help your next relationship, no matter what it is.
Take responsibility for your piece, and do what needs to be done to move past this in a way that is responsible manner. I wrote this b/c of "WW is going to suffer the consequences of her poor choices, and may God have mercy on her soul, as I will not be taking mercy in the coming court proceedings."
Your kids did not ask for this, and yet as bad as it will be for you, it will be the death of their family. If you take her to court and destroy her, that will have a residual effect on your kids. Be careful and think it through.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
