The first step is always the hardest!

[Vanilla]

I am reading along my lovely.

I am so relieved that you are safe and well. Time to heal.

You cannot be dark with kids. Dark is the V strategy, it means anpbsolutely no contact at all for months if not years. I have not communicated with my stbxWH since May 2, in person, by email or text. I booted him, I don't want to know about him at all.

So you my darling are LRT technique, getting on with your life, moving on as best you can.

I really like Zues response it's very practical.

V