Flailing

[Zues126]

Well, DB coaches know best. They have much more experience and know the full dynamic of your sitch.

One thing I left out of my last post is that I do wish you goodwill, support, and peace today. I know how it feels, and I'm sorry you're there.

The positive is the same as the negative- there is no one thing you can do that will make or break anything. That's positive when you feel you've made misteps (not that you did necessarily), negative in the sense that you can't do any one thing to 'win him back'.

Only when you let go of 'getting your H back' as the measuring stick of how you are doing in life can you be truly free. And only when you become the person that you want to be can you not fret about your actions, because they will flow out of you. Like Pirsig said- painting a perfect picture is easy...just make yourself perfect then paint naturally. So too, just become your best self and your beliefs, values, and all of that will flow out of you.

Thanks for explaining the why's behind what you did. Again, if you did your best to follow DB coaches advice then you should sleep well at night.