She is indeed at a spa with her girlfriend. She sent me pics last night and this morning told me the name of the spa. So I checked it out on line and the pics are accurate. So that puts me more at ease that she's being honest with me. It's just the old wounds that make me doubt her.
As for selling the RH it is indeed hinged on having 8 residents - the buyer's financiers require that. So it looks like it'll be about 3 more weeks and then we can sell it. Getting that albatross off from around our necks will be cathartic.
W has panic attacks frequently. That's been going on for about 5 years now. Complex PTSD has been diagnosed. She was working on that with her IC who also happens to be our MC. Perhaps not the ideal MC for our sitch, but she certainly knows our back story intimately. But she hasn't gone to see her in a while. With her recent anxiety attacks I think I'll suggest she goes for another session. That'll also give them the opportunity to talk about our sitch.
Yeah I know what you mean about the relentless forward march of time. But I truly feel that this R is salvageable and will result in a deeper and more fulfilling M once we get this whole A thing behind us.
You can change the direction that things are moving without applying force, by warping spacetime with gravity.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
