Only other thing I need help figuring out for today anyways is do I go dark? Do I try to stay on a friends basis? How do I do holidays like if he asks D8 and I to go to pumpkin patch? Should I ask him and other two kids to attend with us? Do I only answer texts when he texts first? I do not want to throw away the chances of R or friendship but I also need to chose to do what is best for me. Please keep in mind when answering this I will be attending family events with his family as they are my family so I do not need extra wedges!
The compass I have used is asking "If I knew 100% for SURE there way no chance ever that we'd ever be a couple again, what type of relationship would I want".
Not saying that's fool proof, but it was what I used.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
