Its so confusing because the A is over, and shes trying to show me she CAN be honest, but I didn't want to know all the stuff I know now. She just started confessing stuff. She says shes a horrible wife, and needs help. She says she don't understand how I can ever love her again. I DO, but Im kinda freaked out. Ill never get those images outa my head.
md - its only been a couple of days. Theres no point in saying "never". Im not saying to forgive her and go back where you were. But if she is truly committed, then dont you think its worth it to keep the door at least cracked open? As we've said, work on getting professional help together and separately to really FIX the relationship you guys have. You cant fix HER, but together, you CAN piece things together and possibly come out stronger on the other side.
