Strongr - I know you're going through a rough time. Do something for yourself. Take a walk. Rent a movie. Something - anything - just do something completely for yourself.

I know how much it hurts. My husband is being "guided" by another woman! I'm just focusing on myself. What I can change. What I want to be. How I can get there. If I focused on him, I would lose my mind.

I know this is harder than anything...I'm right there with you. But it really does help if you start to look at this whole situation as a time to work on yourself. Be nice to yourself.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti