I just wish I had some way of knowing. I guess I could put a tracking device in her car. The car is an asset of my business so I have the right to know where it is.
Check the laws in ON, but likely you could do this. You don't even need a tracking device beyond your own smartphone. But Peter realize, you may learn something and that knowledge may force you to act, and you seem to be avoiding that.
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Anyway, I'm just trying to have some fun and not fret over things. Let life take it's course. But it certainly would be nice to share some closeness and affection with my W. When she's ready.
Let life take its course... When she's ready...
Peter, we've both been here for a while and seen a lot of crap, so I'll speak frankly. I must say that I worry about you, because you seem content to stay in limbo. Starsky poked at you, telling you that the limbo will continue in accordance to Newton's first law. It will; honestly, it will, because W is not an agent of change.
And life will take its course. The clock runs down and eventually times out. You can let it steer you, or you can do your best to get what you want out of it. Figure out what percentage of your life you have now spent in your current state waiting for the rest of your life. How big can you let that number get? Law of diminishing returns, you know.
My read is that you've also used the RH as an excuse, "As soon as we get one more person, we'll be profitable, and then, ..."
And the months keep ticking by. And now you're wondering if W is telling you the truth. At your level of commitment to hanging around indefinitely, I should think that it surely doesn't matter to you if W is telling you the truth. How could it? If it really mattered to you, you would have found out or left her by now.
Now you know I'm not telling you what to do. It just seems to me that you are still unwilling to take hold of the situation for what it is and do what you want for you. And everything in DB says that doesn't help your cause.
