Need advice for a WW who left Part 4

[dwh15]

I got divorce papers in the mail today. No heads up, no notice, in spite of the fact WW was just here last night making pleasant conversation. I'm shocked and steaming mad. I got into a text exchange which wasn't very DB-like and honestly, I don't care. She sent one last text that she was done discussing it and to talk with her attorney if I had anything else to say. Turned into a raving b!tch.

I'm done. No idea how people hold on after getting D paperwork. Maybe if it had happened sooner in the process, or she had been a little more respectful about how she handled it. The icing on the cake? She blamed me. Said that I had "insulted" OM when I said a few weeks ago that I was helping support him, so he gave her the money to file. Wow. I guess the poor baby couldn't take the truth.

Anyway, this was the nail in the coffin for me. I have no desire to R with her now or in the future. The way she has handled this entire situation, on top of the past 5 years of lies, sleeping around with various OM, etc. I don't need that in my life. I'm so glad now that I have been keeping the logs of child activity. WW is going to be in for a very rude awakening when we get to determining custody. I fully intend to go for as much child custody as possible, and it's not out of spite, but a fear of not wanting my kids around such a disgusting person.

Head is still spinning a little, but I'm definitely in a fully detached state now.