I wish you all the best. I'm so sorry for the pain you and S10 have experienced. I have seen my grandchildren go through the same thing.

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So he's met the OM and he likes him. This guy is sooooper cool. Great. He volunteered this information, his mum didn't make him tell me about the meet.


My EX-DIL'S OM was cool, too. He worked real hard to win the kids over. It almost killed my son, b/c he felt he was losing his entire family to this OM. I'll tell you the same as I told him, and hope it will comfort you. This OM has to work to win your S10 over. You don't have to work to get S10 to like you, b/c you already have his love & adoration. Nobody will ever take away what S10 feels for you. No matter how cool the OM may seem, he can't replace you in the heart of your son. You will always his Dad. OM is new, but that newness will wear off.

I am glad to hear you are feeling better. You are going to okay. My prayers go with you and your son. ((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!