[quote=sandi2]If they have done this for years, and this has been planned for a long time, then you choosing this particular time to start questioning about the male in the group would cause you to look insecure, instead of strong.
Is this man new to the group? Has she never mentioned the sleeping arrangements? Have you ever wondered about it in the past?
You may be feeling the insecurity due to her recent A. Do you know the man involved in the A?
I thought you'd say that I never wondered as it would have never occurred to me that she wouldn't be anything else but faithful. He is not new to the group and I know him...
