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[NDY]

Hi mate

Hi NDY

Funny, I was just checking in on Ghost when I noticed you!

Glad you're doing OK. Still in the same place really. Looks like the house will sell very soon. W has been given a 'NIN' notice from the council (that means they have officially told her she isn't liable for council housing and has no credits and doesn't qualify for homeless treatment)but is still temp checking.

That's going to be tough for her.

Still temp checking me. I find it easier to not respond though, now. Still confused though. If she's going, why does she still want me on her car insurance? Why was she telling me yesterday that she was renewing the kids milk order at school, especially as her only alternative to not getting a house, is to go back to her parents? No idea, but I am more relaxed now and have accepted that 'she's going' and it's up to her if she wants to return.

Yea, they do weird things. My WW did the same with our car insurance. Strange thing to do. I'm glad your more relaxed. So am I.

I'm sleeping fully now and just enjoying being wit the kids. Do you know, I haven't got angry with them since BD. Maybe it's because I know how much I would miss them not being in my daily life that I am taking every opportunity to just have fun!

This is great to hear. Yea, be the best dad ever. I'm the same as much as I can be with S10. But being on my own makes finding time to do the chores difficult. Actually I don't really care about the chores. I'd rather spend time with him.

My W seems to have days of enormous lows where she just sits on the settee sulking, then being nice, then being angry at really odd things, like me doing the washing.

I have no idea what's going on with my WW but the language in her communications have definitely got lighter and more humorous since she knows I'm definitely done and pushing for D. All the opportunity she had to move this on she never lifted a finger. Well that's not strictly true she got a home report and ran to a lawyer. Now that I'm done the house is already on the market and I've already conducted a viewing with more to come. So she could have had this sewn up already but didn't. And all the while keeping her secrete.

Don't really update my sitch much now. Anyway, good to hear from you. Hope the house search goes well!

Thanks mate.

One thing I will say. If your W stays local (considering the upheaval and subsequent Legal arguments of moving the kids with or without legal aid) then although you won't get to see them every day being out of the sitch will help. Ok, it does get lonely when you don't have them or your W but that's ok, that's where the GAL kicks in.

Good luck mate and keep us up to date with your progress.