Im not sure why but I feel like I have to prove that to her that im not getting into her business. I see where I messed up and you are right AZZ, I should have just walked away.
You cant talk your way out of anything right now. She doesnt trust you and doesnt believe you. So whats the point in fighting? Let's say you HAD texted him - how would you react when accused? Im sure youd deny it and probably have a fight, right? So, if in her eyes you would act the same way regardless of whether you did it or not, whats the point?
Originally Posted By: tkdmme
Im doing good for the most part but when she accused me of something that I didn't do I get angry and want say something. This is something that I need to work on. SHe has been accusing me of a lot of things lately. Like ive said in previous posts, it seems the more I detach and start to GAL the angrier she gets.
Im unsure - are you doing this right? I dont see how detaching would cause her to get angry with you. Are you still being pleasant and friendly? Or have you turned cold?
Originally Posted By: tkdmme
I one point in our sitch she acted like she felt sorry for me. Now she acts like she truly hates me. The longer this goes on the less I want her back. I don't want to feel that way but I think its natural. I am protecting myself from further emotional pain.
Its understandable. But theres not really any merit to focusing on this.
Originally Posted By: tkdmme
Also, I am sexually frustrated. I know its wrong but part of me wants to go out and pick up a girl for a one night fling. I have never had trouble with women and being a piano player, it would not be hard. I have not acted on these feelings but I really want to. Im just being honest and I know it would be wrong to do something like that. I have been married for 16+ years and have turned down loads of women. I have never cheated but im not sure if it would cheating at this point. However I do know that if I did something like that I would regret it and feel guilty.
The text I highlighted in blue kinda answers your own question, dont you think? As for the bolded, it sounds like you just want to "get even" - to inflict some pain back on your wife so she can know how you feel. Am I wrong?
