Funny, I was just checking in on Ghost when I noticed you!
Glad you're doing OK. Still in the same place really. Looks like the house will sell very soon. W has been given a 'NIN' notice from the council (that means they have officially told her she isn't liable for council housing and has no credits and doesn't qualify for homeless treatment)but is still temp checking.
Still temp checking me. I find it easier to not respond though, now. Still confused though. If she's going, why does she still want me on her car insurance? Why was she telling me yesterday that she was renewing the kids milk order at school, especially as her only alternative to not getting a house, is to go back to her parents? No idea, but I am more relaxed now and have accepted that 'she's going' and it's up to her if she wants to return.
I'm sleeping fully now and just enjoying being wit the kids. Do you know, I haven't got angry with them since BD. Maybe it's because I know how much I would miss them not being in my daily life that I am taking every opportunity to just have fun!
My W seems to have days of enormous lows where she just sits on the settee sulking, then being nice, then being angry at really odd things, like me doing the washing.
Don't really update my sitch much now. Anyway, good to hear from you. Hope the house search goes well!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
