apologies - i have just skimmed - BUT - i get the overwhelming impression that YOU and all the other PEOPLE here that stick have the right approach. I am in the middle of custody//court and it IS playing out that fair is fair, right is right, and justice will be yours.
you're doing great Lost - again apologies re:specifics but what I have seen is that the ball is in your court. it might not be official yet, but you are doing everything right.
chin up darling. It all gets better, i promise.
-Py
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015