It's when she goes on her trip that's when I wonder if any noise should be made?
I get the fact she's going on the trip. I'm not understanding what you mean by making noise. Can you be more specific or give an example of what you would do?
Do you have a problem with her going on this trip? Obviously, she's been training for it and you knew she was planing to go, so if there was a problem........have you discussed it with her?
Don't get the wrong idea of what I've said in my last couple of posts. I am not trying to turn you into a tyrant.
It would be most helpful if you could give us more information.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
