Does this mean we are entering piecing?

[Missmeg]

How can things change so quickly?! The last two weekends we were physically and emotionally very close, acting all lovey-dovey, saying all the right things, recommitting to the relationship, agreeing to go to counseling and making this work, etc. Everything seemed really good.

Can't believe things changed so much in six days. He's cold, withdrawn, almost hostile, makes no attempt to contact me at all. So of course I ended up calling him, and we're back in the pursuer/distancer dance. Boo.

At least now I recognize it for what it is, and know to stop it. Know that I have to change the pattern by not pursuing. Back to GAL, detachment, etc. Again.

So sick of this. Don't even know if I want him to move back in anymore. Maybe I should just throw in the towel and file for divorce.