Thank you for the fantastic advice! Heading over to validating now. I'm not sure how to approach him about boundaries....he's gone until tomorrow. Do I just approach him and start requesting he treat me with respect? I know we were both really hurt by the fight, and I'm reluctant to bring it up again.
Sometimes I look at him and see the struggle going on within. He knows the difference between right and wrong, but he thinks OW is going to make him truly happy. My children are so upset with him, and are questioning him. I'm staying out of that, but I'm sure they're adding to his confusion.
Patience, calmness, and strength. I really believe I'm learning so much. You guys are wonderful!
