Got here late... but I'm here now.

[duke]

Hi V
Sorry, but I don't see any purple. Today was a bad day. I decided early in the AM that I would take W off our joint CC and pay down our CC using $$ from joint account only leaving enough $$ to cover expenses. A couple hours later I got an email from W's new L for the separation. My heart fell but it prompted me to take the action above. I sent W a note telling her what I did so there were no nasty surprises for her and its the right thing to do. She went ballistic. Of course its fine for her to put her paycheque into her own account but its not for me. Especially after I supported her all summer and for her trip. She said she was going to tell the kids why they cant have back to school clothes. Really unbelievable.