its really good to see you stay principled. I think that I fold and go 'back' emotionally at the smallest invitation and my husband feels that and I lose ground. I really respect how you are handling things. I feel like my husband has me for 'comfort'and then goes gallivanting on match.com for excitement. Can you help me.. when he invites me for dinner or tries to come into my car on the ferry to talk.. should I decline? I thinklikely yes? But how do I start to show him that we can have a good relationship?
