HELP!! My husband and I have been separated for 6 months.. and I have been trying to use the DB principles.. but I just found out he's setting up to have an weekend away with one of his Match.com women.. and I'm hurting all over. When I came home from being away for 5 weeks seeing my family ..he hugged me and said he missed me, and was different. He apologized for things..which before he never did. And so I responded and made a nice dinner for he and my son.. and then I think he felt that I was "back" and he turned toward the excitement of a new girlfriend.. and I have no idea what to do. I am trying to "go dark" but we have to sort out financial things for my daughter who is in college. Please advise.. -very very sad and not sleeping. My biggest fear is that he will LOVE sex with this match.com woman and then I will totally lose him..