When is kindness enough?

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I don't know under which classification my STBXW falls under, WW, MLC or other, but I do have a question in my mind.
His she in any fog when she says she knows very well there will be moments she will miss her husband, who has generaly been a good husband?
And that D is a very tough decision to take but she had to take it?
These seem pretty lucid thougts someone having to take a difficult decision would have.
I see no fog here.