I am so sorry she's putting you through this roller-coaster.
My H won't go to MC anymore - he says he feels pressured by the MC and by me. I've taken a big step back and am focusing on becoming financially independent so I can choose freely what I want to do. At some point, I have to decide if I want to continue to be available for someone who doesn't seem interested in doing the work...
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17