I agree with you, Job.

I think I should have included a disclaimer to that effect.

My hope is that someone may find themselves in a situation where they are able to implement things like this to aid their situation. Maybe before it reaches the point that so many of the situations here have reached. I know that I lurked on these forums for a long time before I ever posted anything, before I even registered.

By the way, Job. You offer excellent advice. I have never personally said that to you, but I have read a lot of it.


M: 38 W: 37
T: 20 M: 19
Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12
BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out)
PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM)
Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015