I guess I am looking for the "loss" that triggers her to reconsider her actions, and the birth that Sandy talks about. That was my point. Theres no way to really know what that will be. It could be a parent death. It could be a lonely holiday. It could be listening to an old song or seeing an old photo. Who knows. But, the only way for it to happen is to not be there for her all the time right now.
I need the GAL to prove to myself that I am a good person that deserves to be happy. Maybe that can help me with the rules in the 37 that I am having trouble with. Yep. Thats pretty much the point.
Also, to prove to YOURSELF that YOU dont need HER. That you CAN be happy without her.
