I didn't help her carry anything, 180. I didn't sit by her, 180 I laughed and joked with the other dads, 180 for me lately... been mopey
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In my opinion, theres no point in thinking of this in absolute terms like that. Unfortunately, while we use metaphors around here like "closing a door", it really isnt that simple. You cant just decide "I dont want to be married anymore"...I think it's more that you exist for a while, and then look around and discover that. I would focus on your own detachment rather than trying to prove things or show things to her. Your own detachment and GAL activity will show her more than anything you can "plant".
Azzork explained it much better than I have. He can identify with you from the VP of the LBH. When I say "show her how life without you would be", I mean by you detaching (stop trying to win her back), GAL without her, and as one poster said......stop kissing her butt all the time. Once you truly.....TRULY detach, she'll know.
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