Im so mad at myself for kissing her butt for the first 3 months of this sitch. Who im I kidding? I still kiss her butt from time to time.
I guess that's basically the message I try to give newcomer LBH'S, "Kissing butt does not get your WW back". However, most of the men have to learn for themselves that it doesn't work. I'm saying that you aren't the only one.
Don't be afraid of the lawyer. You aren't seeing him b/c you are in trouble. He is there to help you. If you hire him, he'll work for you.
I don't know that it would help with PMA, but if you tend to think the worst possible outcome, then think what you would do. Stop sticking your head in the sand, b/c it doesn't make the problems go away.
Last edited by sandi2; 09/17/1502:36 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
