have i been making mistakes too long part 6

[tkdmme]

Thanks Sotto,

I have a tendency to think of the worst possible outcome and then take steps to avoid it. This is not healthy and it never yields the results I wanted.

Its been a been a full seven days without any real communication with the W. I know that people say on this site to make changes for yourself to get better but I really want my family back. I still hope that the changes im making will make her second guess her decision about the D. She still hasn't seen a lawyer or filed for D. What is she waiting on? She says we have no chance and that she is tired of dragging it out but still no action on her part.

This is very confusing to me. I know what she says she wants, but her not pursuing anything is weird. Why wouldn't she be taking action to get the D.

Also, I was supposed to be taking on a new project that would have me out of town at the end of October. The company moved it to the end of November and now they say it will be after the first of the year. I haven't told her this. As far as she knows I will be moving out of town in November sometime. I'm not sure if I should tell her or not. Any thoughts?