Hi Mona
Sorry to hear this. I am in the midst of the mess myself and been reading everything i can. Sandi has a few threads about advice for LBS and she does a good section on mending and restoring the R. i dont know if you read it, but i am and hoping i can use the techniques.

Best of luck

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15