WhyUs, Thanks for the encouragement. I wish you the best in the resolution of your sitch. I would have been a fool not to sign the mediation agreement.
GB, Thank you so much for your continued support and gut checking advice during this journey. The tragic part about all of this is just last night STBX tearfully tells me that she feels that this is all her fault. Also, she just accepted a job in a different department at the same hospital. However, for me, once the D is final, it is my intention to move on from any R for good, other than coparenting, with STBX.
If you are in my area sometime in the near future, I would enjoy meeting up to share a beverage.
Cheers!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15