My WW loves her OOM

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Hi Sorgan, I am sorry that you are already there my friend. This is a tough spot to be in. Now you have to ask yourself what's more important to you. We are here to support you, ultimately we would love to see you reconcile with your wife, that's what we all want. Except that this journey is about YOU, you need to focus on yourself, meet your own needs and wants, be responsible for your own happiness. Your W has already made her decision, and she continues to enforce it and do everything in her power to continue down her journey.

What worked for me, may not work for you, but think about what do you ultimately need for Sorgan to be happy and healthy, for your kids to be happy and healthy, and follow that.

We want to be rescuers to our wives, but that's not the role that we should be taking right now, we are no longer their husbands. Are you still paying for her cellphone? Why are you paying for her to be able to talk to OM? Would it be wrong to ask her to leave the home, being that she is blatantly disrespecting you and has no regards for your children? Is that fair to you and them?

These are just my .02 cents, you need to be the one to sit down and make the hard decisions, of course with compassion and love, for her, for you, and for your children.

I wish you nothing but the best my friend.