I agree w/Cadet...stop taking his bait! He's pushing your buttons and you need to step away from him when he does this. The fighting is his justification for wanting a divorce.
If he asks about the lawyer again, tell him that you are going to get one and he'll be informed when you do so and then shut the conversation down. Do not talk to him about his ow because he will deny that she exists until the cows come home. The most important thing right now is to protect yourself and your finances. Schedule an appointment w/a lawyer today and find out what your options are in the way of protecting your assets. Knowledge is power.
Once you know what your options are, DO NOT share this info w/your h. Currently, he is not your friend and he will promise you the moon, but when it comes down to signing documents, he will back track and leave you w/very little. Do not believe anything that he says for now.
Make that appointment today!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
