late30's, The info you have provided is useful in a normal setting whereby your spouse, family member or friends is going thru depression.
However, when you have a spouse who is going thru a MLC, they do not think that they are depressed, nor do they want us to tell them that they are. In fact, they don't want us to provide guidance on any health issue. If they come to you and discuss their health issues or ask your opinion, then the door opens and you can tell them your opinion.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
