Confused newbie

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Ok, I am not approaching/ pursuing her. GAL kicks into high gear starting tomorrow morning. Patience patience patience...

So, since she already wants to do "family" things together... what should I be looking for to notice if there is a change? I realize I am actually only on day 2 or 3 of this, and DR says give it a couple weeks. What would be the signs that I am making progress? Tuesday, she came to me and was telling me about her Dr appt. We talk a lot about the kids, and about the housing sitch. I let her approach me the last couple days.

I did notice that her "closest" friend who was at the game didn't sit with W. Friend is religious, and VERY family oriented. She has been against this whole thing. Maybe, losing closeness with me, and her friends, and being in our big house (that I have remodeled most of the past 2 years), and the fact that a lot of the closets and a room are empty, may start to make her take notice. God willing! I had the boys last night, and again tonight. Maybe that will help serve as a wake up call too.

I've heard that she needs to feel a loss, to see what she is doing. I hope that one of these things will do it. I have to keep up the LRT! I hate doing it, but it is definitely a huge series of 180s

Thanks for the support, and any advice!