That is good.... . You did well too keep it light.

Why was H anxious?

I think you can reassure him how you are mentally but as you guessed showing him is more effective.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together