Duke

I agree with your Ls. Go back and get some more advice.

This is my view:

WW has taken the lead, she may feel entitled enough to go solo and have the joint funds.

Time to act.

Take your cash from the joint account, leave what is reasonable to cover bank charges, if she takes it so be it. Put no more in the account unless your L says so, discuss bills with L, pre and post. I believe you are best to pay WW directly. Close any joint accounts. You have one shot at this, quick, smooth and

I agree with Judy, any agreements you had are now invalid.

It's time to get tough on the Fins and fighting for your kids.

STFU, cards to your chest. No name calling, ok? If she rants, record it, validate and say "you have separated your salary from our account, time for me to do the same".

I believe i's time, as I said, that is now.

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Last edited by Vanilla; 09/17/15 07:52 AM.
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